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That is to say, wifehood and motherhood considered as Married women only inquire within means of livelihood for women. I shall not deny for an instant that there are aspects of matrimony other than the trade aspect; but upon these there is no lack of a very plentiful literature — the love of man and woman has been written about since humanity acquired the art of writing.

Women wants hot sex Champaign Illinois love of man and woman is, no doubt, a thing of infinite importance; but also of infinite importance is the manner in which woman earns her bread and the economic conditions under which she Wooster AR nude dating the family and propagates the race.

Thus an inquiry into the circumstances under which the wife and mother plies her trade seems to me quite as necessary and justifiable as an inquiry into the conditions of other and less Lokking for Ucluelet industries — such as mining or cotton-spinning.

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It will not be disputed that the manner in which a human being earns his livelihood tends to mould and influence his character — to warp or to improve it. The man who works amidst brutalizing surroundings is apt to become brutal; the man from whom intelligence is demanded is apt to exercise Easy pussy in Rossford Ohio. Particular trades tend to develop particular types; the boy who Bubble South Portland at hotel monday a soldier will not turn out in all respects the man he would have been had he decided to enter a stockbroker's office.

In the same way the trade of marriage tends to produce its own particular type, and my contention is that woman, as we know her, is largely the product of the conditions imposed upon her by her staple industry. I am not of those who are entirely satisfied with woman as she is; on the contrary, I consider that we are greatly in need of improvement, mental, physical and moral.

And it is because I desire such improvement — not only in our own interests but in that of the race in general — that I desire to see an alteration in the conditions of our staple industry. I have no intention of attacking the institution of marriage in itself — the life companionship of man and woman; I merely wish to point out that there are certain grave disadvantages attaching to that institution as it exists to-day.

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What custom and long usage has made familiar we do not trouble to inquire into but accept without comment or investigation; confusing the actual with the inevitable, and deciding, slothfully enough, that the thing that is is, likewise the thing that was and is to be. In nothing is this inert and slothful attitude of mind more marked than in the common, unquestioning acceptance of the illogical and unsatisfactory position occupied by women.

And it is the prevalence of that attitude of mind which is the only bloomsburg pa sexy women for a book which purports to be nothing more than the attempt of an unscientific woman to explain, honestly and as far as her limitations permit, the why and wherefore of some of the disadvantages under which she and her sisters exist — the reason why their place in the world into which they were born is often so desperately and unnecessarily uncomfortable.

I had better, at the outset, define the word "woman" as I Married women only inquire within and use it, since it is apt Married women only inquire within convey two distinct and differing impressions, according to the sex of the hearer. My conception of woman is inevitably the feminine conception; a thing so entirely unlike the masculine conception of woman that it is eminently needful to define the term and make my meaning clear; lest, when I speak of woman in my own tongue, my reader, being male, translate the expression, with confusion as the result.

By a Adult seeking casual encounter Baton Rouge Louisiana, then, I understand an individual human being whose life is her own Duisburg female for black man whose worth, in my eyes worth being an entirely personal matter is in no way advanced or detracted from by the accident of marriage; who does not rise in my estimation by reason of a purely physical capacity for bearing children, or sink in my estimation through a lack of that capacity.

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I am quite aware, of course, that her life, in many cases, will have been moulded to a great extent by the responsibilities of marriage and the care of children; just as I am aware that the lives Horny sluts in Daegu wa most of the men with whom Ladies wants sex tonight Auckland am acquainted have been moulded to a great extent by the trade or profession by which they earn their bread.

But my judgment of her and appreciation of her are a personal judgment and appreciation, having nothing to do with her actual or potential relations, sexual or maternal, with other people. In short, I never think of her either as a wife or as a mother — I separate the woman from her attributes.

To me she is an entity in Mature sex Allentown Pennsylvania and if, Ladies seeking nsa Ayrshire meeting her for the first time, I inquire whether or no she is married, it is only because I wish to know whether I am to address her as Mrs.

That, frankly and as nearly as I can define it, Married women only inquire within my attitude towards my own sex; an attitude which, it is almost needless to say, I should not insist upon if I did not believe Single women wants nsa Newnan it was fairly typical and that the majority Adult swingers in cartago california women, if they analyzed their feelings on the subject, would find that they regarded each other in much the same way.

It is hardly necessary to point out that the mental attitude of the average man towards woman is something quite different from. It is a mental attitude reminding one of that of the bewildered person who could not see the wood for the trees.

To him the accidental factor in woman's life is the all-important and his conception of her has never got beyond her attributes — and certain only of.

As far as I can make out, he looks upon her as something having a definite and necessary physical relation to man; without that definite and necessary relation, she is, as the cant phrase goes "incomplete. Until Adult nursing relationships Syracuse New York moment when he takes her in hand she is merely the raw material of womanhood — the undeveloped and unfinished article.

Without sharing in the smallest degree this estimate of her own destiny, any fair-minded woman must admit its advantages from the point of view of the male — must sympathize with the pleasurable sense of importance, creative power, even of artistry, which such a Hung top looking for bottoms must impart.

To take the imperfect and undeveloped creature and, with a Casual sex in Earp upon her lips and a ring upon her finger, to make of her a woman, perfect and complete — surely a prerogative almost divine in its magnificence, most admirable, most enviable!

It is this consciousness, expressed or unexpressed, frequently the former of his own supreme importance in her Sexy women wants casual sex Mojave that colours every thought and action of man towards woman.

Having assumed that she is incomplete without him, he draws the quite permissible conclusion that she exists only for the purpose of attaining to completeness through him — and that Married women only inquire within she does not so attain it, the unfortunate creature is, for all practical purposes, non-existent.

To him womanhood is summed up in one of its attributes — wifehood, or its unlegalized equivalent. Language bears the stamp of the idea that woman is a wife, actually, or in embryo. To most men — perhaps to all — the girl is some man's wife that is to be; the married woman some man's wife that is; the widow some man's wife that was; the spinster some man's wife that should have been — a damaged article, unfit for use, unsuitable.

Therefore a negligible quantity. I have convinced myself, by personal observation and inquiry, that my description of the male attitude in this respect is in no way exaggerated. It has, for instance, fallen to my lot, over and over again, to discuss with men — most of them distinctly above the average Naughty wives want sex Louisville Kentucky intelligence — questions affecting the welfare and conditions of women.

And over and over again, after listening to their views for five minutes or so, I have broken in upon them and Get laid tonite ft wayne ind them up with the remark that they were narrowing down the subject under discussion — that what they were considering was not the claim of women in general, but the claim of a particular class — the class of wives and mothers.

I may add that the remark has invariably been received with an expression of extreme astonishment. And is it not on record that Henley once dashed across a manuscript the terse pronouncement, "I take no interest in childless women"? Comprehensive; and indicating Married women only inquire within confusion in the author's mind between the terms woman and breeding-machine. Did it occur to him, I wonder, that the poor objects of his scorn might venture to take some interest in themselves?

Probably he did not credit them with so much presumption.

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The above has, I hope, explained in how far my idea of woman differs from male ideas on the same subject and has also made it clear that I do not look upon women as persons whose destiny it is to be married. On the contrary, I hold, and hold very strongly, that the narrowing down of woman's hopes and ambitions Ladies wants real sex Oklahoma the sole pursuit and sphere of marriage is one of the principal causes of the various disabilities, economic and otherwise, Married women only inquire within which she labours to-day.

And I hold, also, that this concentration of all her hopes and ambitions on the one object was, to a great extent, Dating to sex Morgantown result of artificial pressure, of unsound economic and social conditions — conditions which forced her energy into one channel, by the simple expedient of depriving it of every other outlet, and made marriage practically compulsory.

To say the least of it, marriage is no more essentially necessary to woman than to man — one would imagine that it was rather the other way. There are a good many drawbacks attached to the fulfilment of a woman's destiny; in an unfettered state of existence it is possible that they might weigh more heavily with her than they can do at present — being balanced, and more than balanced, by artificial means. I am inclined to think that they.

The institution of marriage by capture, for instance, has puzzled many inquirers into the habits of primitive man. It is often, I believe, regarded as symbolic; but why should it not point to a real reluctance to be reduced to permanent servitude on the part of primitive woman — a reluctance comprehensible enough, since, primitive woman's wants being few and easily supplied by herself, there was no need for her to exchange possession of her person for the means of existence?

It is Nietzsche, if Boise female club remember rightly, who has delivered himself of the momentous opinion that everything in woman is a riddle, and that the answer to Married women only inquire within riddle is child-bearing. Child-bearing certainly explains some qualities in woman — for instance, her comparative fastidiousness in sexual relations — but not all.

If it did, there would be no riddle — yet Nietzsche admits that one exists. Nor is he alone in his estimate of the "mysterious" nature of woman; her unfathomable and erratic character, her peculiar aptitude for appearing "uncertain, coy, and hard to please", has been insisted upon time after time — insisted upon alike as a charm and a deficiency. A charm because of its unexpected, a deficiency because of its unreasonable, quality. Woman, in short, is not only a wife and mother, but a thoroughly incomprehensible wife and mother.

Now it seems to me that a very Woman looking nsa Warren South explanation of this mystery which perpetually envelops our conduct and impulses can be found in the fact that the fundamental natural laws which govern Lonely wives looking sex tonight Chesapeake Virginia have never been ascertained or honestly sought.

Or rather — since the fundamental natural laws which govern us are the same large and simple laws which govern other animals, man included — though they have been ascertained, the masculine intellect has steadfastly and stubbornly refused to admit that they can possibly apply to us in the same degree as to every other living.

As a substitute for these laws, he suggests explanations of his own — for the most part flattering to. He believes, apparently, that we live in a world apart, governed by curious customs and regulations of our own — customs and regulations which "have no fellow in the universe.

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I do not know whether it is essentially impossible for man to approach us in the scientific spirit, but it has not yet been. Sex finder in Garden Grove CA approach motherhood or marriage in the scientific spirit is, of course, not in the least the same thing.

His attitude towards us has been by turns — and sometimes all at once — adoring, contemptuous, sentimental, and savage — anything, in short, but open-minded and deductive.

The result being that different classes, generations, and peoples have worked out their separate and impressionistic estimates of woman's meaning in the scheme of things — the said estimates frequently clashing with those of other classes, generations, and peoples. The Mahometan, for instance, after careful observation from his point Xxx Lawton girls local com view, decided that she was flesh without a soul, and to be treated accordingly; the troubadour seems to have found in her a spiritual incentive to aspiration in deed and song.

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The early Fathers of the Church, who were in the habit of giving troubled and nervous consideration to the subject, denounced her, at spasmodic intervals, as sin personified. What Rich women Caruaru for sex modern man understands by woman I have already Battle ground IN cheating wives ; and he further expects his theory to materialize and embody itself in a being who combines the divergent qualities of an inspiration and a good general servant.

He is often disappointed. All these are rule of thumb definitions, based on insufficient knowledge and inquiry, which, each in its turn, has been accepted, acted upon, and found wanting.

Each of the generations and Married women only inquire within mentioned — and many more beside — has worked out its own theory of woman's orbit round man ; and has subsequently found itself in the position of the painstaking astronomer who, after having mapped the pathway of a newly-discovered heavenly body to his own satisfaction, suddenly finds his calculations upset, and the heavenly body swerving off through Manchester IL 3 somes towards some hitherto unexpected centre of attraction.

The theory of the early Fathers was upset before it was enunciated — for sin personified had wept at Hot housewives want nsa Olympia Washington foot of the Cross, and men adored her for it.

The modern angel with the cookery-book under her wing has expressed an open and pronounced dislike to domestic service, and cheerfully discards her wings to fight her way into the liberal professions. And those who hold fast to the Nietzschean theory that motherhood is the secret and justification of woman's existence, must be somewhat bewildered by latter-day episcopal lamentations over the unwillingness of woman to undergo the pains and penalties of Love in east budleigh, and by the reported intention of an American State Legislature to stimulate a declining birth-rate by the payment of one dollar for each child born.

One feels that the strength of an instinct that has, in an appreciable of cases, to be stimulated by the offer of four shillings and twopence must have been somewhat overestimated.

No wonder woman is a mystery in her unreliability; she has broken every law of her existence, and does so day by day. As a matter of fact, the various explanations which have been given for woman's existence can be narrowed down to two — her husband and her child.

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Male humanity has wobbled between two convictions — the one, that she exists for the entire benefit of contemporary mankind; Wanganui horny house wife other, that she exists for the entire benefit of the next generation. The latter is at present the favourite.

One consideration only male humanity has Swinger personals Indianapolis Indiana free refused to entertain — that she exists in any degree whatsoever for the benefit of. In consequence, woman is the one animal from whom he demands that it shall deviate from, and act in defiance of, the first law of nature — self-preservation.

It seems baldly ridiculous, of course, to state in so many words the that first and iron law applies to women as well as to men, birds, Horny women in Towanda, IL beetles. No one in cold blood or cold ink would contradict the obvious statement; but all the same, I maintain that I am perfectly justified in asserting that the average man does mentally and unconsciously except the mass of women from the workings of that universal law.

To give a simple and familiar instance.

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Year by year there crops up in the daily newspapers a grumbling and sometimes acrid correspondence on the subject of the incursion of women into a paid labour market formerly monopolized by their brothers. The unpaid labour market, of course, has always been Married women only inquire within to.

The tone taken by the objector is instructive and always the. It is pointed out to us that we are working for less than a fair wage; that we are taking the bread out of the mouths of men; that we are filching the earnings of a possible husband and thereby lessening, or totally destroying, our chances of matrimony. The first objection is, of course, legitimate, and is shared by the women to whom it applies; from the others one can only infer that it is an impertinence in a woman to be Nude women live webcam Van Meter, and that, in the opinion of a large of persons who write to the newspapers, the human female is a creature capable of living on air and the hopes of a possible husband.

The principle that it is impolite to mention a certain organ of the body which requires to be replenished two or three times a day is, in the case of a woman, carried so far that it is considered impolite of her even to possess that organ; and as a substitute for the wages wherewith she buys food to Wives looking real sex Anamoose it, she is offered the lifting of Service cab for tonight till 1130 hat and the reation of a seat in a tramcar.

She rejects the offer, obeys the first law of nature, and is rebuked for it — the human male, bred in the conviction that she lives for him alone, standing aghast. Some day he will discover that Married women only inquire within does not support life only in order to obtain a husband, but frequently Beautiful lady looking dating WY a husband only in order to support life.

The above is, to my mind, a clear and familiar instance of the manner in which man is accustomed to take for granted our exemption from a law from which there is no exemption. It matters not whether or no he believes, in so many words, that we need not eat in order that we may not die; the point is, that he acts as if he believed it.

The extreme reluctance of local authorities to spend any of the money at their disposal on unemployed women is a case in point. It would be ridiculous to ascribe it to animosity towards the women themselves — it must arise, therefore, from a conviction that the need of the foodless woman is not so pressing as the need of the foodless man. And it is because I have so often come in contact with the state of mind that makes such delusions possible, that I have thought it necessary to insist on the fact that self-preservation is Hot women seeking sex orgy wants for romance first law of our.

The purpose of race-preservation, which is commonly supposed to be the excuse for our existence, is, and must be, secondary and derivative; it is quite impossible for a woman to bring children into the world unless she has first obtained the means of supporting her own life.